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"Parents residing in the northern part of London is looking for an extraordinary and skilled educator to guide their most junior child on his first steps to becoming an English gentleman."

Looking at this post, you might readily overlook the term "beginning" as just figurative language.

However, it could be the crucial part of this unique position posting, as it aims to recruit a tutor for a one-year-old.

Numerous of responses have since been submitted since the unidentified family published their request for the £180,000 per year tutor, who has to be "an exceptional individual".

During the past few weeks, the post has gained notice in the media, with several asking why?

Innovative Idea

A tutoring expert, chief executive of an education consultancy, which is helping the family in their quest, said that despite early skepticism, he considered the plan "far sighted", and "advanced".

When he spoke with the family, he noted they understood the unconventional character of their requirement, and how young their son is.

But, they clarified that they "didn't want to wait any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had waited until their elder sibling was five, and by that point "cultural influence had already set in".

But what does the family indicate by "cultural leaning"?

It's "everything", the expert answered. "How you eat, the way you speak".

He explained the firstborn had picked up "really subtle, non-verbal cues" from the family, and had taken on their cultural ways. The family told the consultant they wished to avoid this pattern to repeat itself with their new baby.

The intention: To engage a UK tutor, who must speak with RP, to guide the baby from the very start.

Natural Absorption

"A lot of the learning at the start here is somewhat absorbed naturally," said the CEO.

It's via this osmosis that the family are aiming the child will adopt the UK customs they aim to cultivate.

He noted the tutor must be somebody who studied at "the appropriate educational institutions – comparable categories of schools as the family plan to send their son to".

"The educator simply needs to be the suitable individual, they'll be carrying out things they may not realize they're doing, effortlessly," he added.

Cost Not Relevant

The family explained to him the selected educator should preferably also have knowledge of or passion in equestrian activities, skiing, artistic pursuits and musical activities so as to influence the child in a wide range of passions.

Furthermore though, he explained the family wanted the tutor to enrol the child on a variety of courses so the child would be "equestrian training and learning an tool by the time they are approximately three years old".

In the family's minds, guiding their son become a "UK sophisticate" will result in accomplishment and provide access.

"Considering the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's undoubtedly a status symbol," he comments.

But, in spite of all this instruction in "Britishness", would the child adopt so-called cultural influence from the globally influenced family he lives with in any case?

"Certainly", said the CEO. "They know this may not work, but they've just taken the attitude of, 'we should try and we'll proceed as quickly as we can', because the price of it is not relevant," he said.

Idealistic and Unrealistic

There are some in the tutoring industry who have those reservations.

An education leader, CEO and founder of Blue Education, who provides personal educators, commented that "the journey of adopting dual cultures, or indeed, discovering oneself, is something that must be grown into, not designed."

Peter wrote that he had moved from China to the Britain at the period of 7 years old, and had been educated understanding and living both cultures. He continued to study at a prestigious UK institution.

"The idea that a single person can act as a representation of English culture, an individual who can somehow transplant the attributes of a UK sophisticate to a infant child, seems to me idealistic and unfeasible," he wrote.

"Based on my background, engaging a distinctly UK tutor from infancy will will not instantly create the goal they hope for.

"I did not have that kind of mentor, and however I have been lucky enough to experience numerous of the experiences they hope for their son."

He stated: "The reality is, personal identity cannot be dictated from the outside influences; it must be embraced, and it must come from within."

Purchasing UK Culture

Naturally, Britishness is something the CEO hopes can be instructed – and marketed.

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